Being Thankful to Others

By Vic Kohring, October 9, 2017 

Being thankful and grateful to others is a reflection of one's character, but also part of being a Christian. The Apostle Paul wrote that Christians should have a Christ-like attitude and act with selflessness and humility in our interactions with others.

I've always tried to follow this principle. As a legislator, I sent out hundreds of cards, notes and letters through the years and made probably thousands of calls, letting constituents know how grateful I was for their support. During my campaigns for election, I made a point at placing "Thank you" posters on all my large highway signs as another form of appreciation.

The posters began a trend among local politicians that became a common practice until recent years. My biggest expression of gratitude was to stand along the Parks and Glenn Highways greeting motorists with a large, illuminated "Thank You" sign the day after each election. The Parks/Main Street intersection in downtown Wasilla was my favorite location. 

Going out before the public after an election was the most difficult because by then I was usually physically and mentally spent from months of campaigning. To go out one final time was the hardest as I preferred to stay home and crash, but it was important that people knew how I sincerely valued their support at the polls.

I relate my campaigns to running a marathon, where you push for so hard and so long until you're ready to drop. When you cross the finish line, all you want is rest. Who in their right mind would get up and run a few more miles? But I went out the next day anyway. Most politicians grab your vote and run once the campaign is over and you seldom hear from them again until the next election season when they're once more pleading for your vote. I was determined to be different.

While in the legislature, my staff and I helped literally thousands of people through the years on a variety of concerns. Interestingly, very few ever said thanks. Seldom a word. But helping was the right thing to do and my main reason for being in office, so I have no regrets. After I left the legislature and was no longer in a position of influence, the vast majority of those who sought my help forgot about me. Most notable were my former legislative colleagues, lobbyists and constituents. But it was to be expected.

Thankfulness is a prominent Biblical theme. I Thessalonians 5:16-18 says that one should "Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." The Gospel of Luke speaks of Jesus healing a group of five lepers, but only one showed gratitude afterward. Chapter 17 says, "When one of them saw that he was healed, he came back. He praised God in a loud voice. He threw himself at Jesus' feet and thanked him."  

The story of the lepers reminds me of my second reelection campaign in 1998. While waving at cars the day following the November election at the intersection of Parks and Main with a big "Thank You" sign (lit by a floodlight off a generator in below zero weather), a local attorney and Christian man parked his car and walked up to me.

I was a little nervous seeing a stranger moving briskly toward me in the dark. But he explained that my presence on the highway reminded him of the five lepers healed by Jesus. He was impressed that I was the only politician to take time afterward to say thank you to the public, the same as the one healed leper. 

To be compared with the story in Luke was extra special and one of the highlights of my years in office. Being thankful is part of being humble, which unfortunately is a rare trait among politicians and many others for that matter. Matthew 23:12 says that "…he that humbles himself shall be exalted" and James 4:10, "Humble yourself in the sight of the Lord and He shall lift you up."   

When a person expresses gratitude, it changes their focus from being selfish and self-centered. Moreover, research shows that those who regularly practice such expressions of kindness and compassion toward others are more positive, happier, healthier and have a greater sense of well-being.  

Ralph Waldo Emerson once said that to be content in life, you should, "cultivate the habit of being grateful for every good thing that comes to you, and to give thanks continuously." We should all live by these words.

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